Do you believe kids should get to pick which parent they live with? We are dealing with this issue now. BM may be relocating to another state for work and SS, 15, wants to go with her. More like he is telling us he is moving and feels that the choice is completely up to him. His opinon matters but we know he wants to go with her because she is very lienent, lets him come and go as he pleases, has very little rules or structure for him and treats him like an adult. We don't feel he is mature enough to make this decision but I wonder what others think about it?