After almost a year of slacking, BM finally got around to actually getting SD an IEP plan.(BM started this process in MAY of last year and bs-ed with finishing it by not signing the forms to have the testing done.) Mostly b/c DH said if she didn't he'd do it himself, even if that meant court. Any-who, the meeting is tomorrow at 8, which presents many issues. DD has to be at school at 8:10 for starters, we would have to take DD4 and DS2 with us, AND I have freaking strep throat for the first time ever! I honestly feel no need for me to go, but DH and BM both want me to, and SF is going. The last one I went to was kind of a mess, with BM making rude comments to and about both DH and I. The teacher and the school psychologist were speechless, and you should've seen their faces! DH says I need to suck it up and go, but WHY? Why do I need to be there??