so i just want to know if any of you ladies have been in this situation and want to hear your stories. i'd just like to mentally prepare myself for the shitstorm that might be coming lol.
I guess BM is moving back in with her mother too since before she was living rent free along with not having to pay any utilities. she recently decided to go part time (before they broke up) so HOPEFULLY shes smart and goes back to full time. buttt yeah i doubt it. she likes to sleep... a lot. im just worried shes going to come after BF for more money and just be kind of bitchy all the time in general. her mother isnt the nicest person to deal with either and theres already 4 adults and 3 kids living in that house so SS is going to have to get used to a hectic house i guess :/
question:i do feel bad. so would it be a horrible idea to text her and just let her know that if she needs any alone time or anything to feel free to bring her son over as much as she wants until she gets back on track or w/e (not even sure how i'd word it)? they dont have stritcy visiting days or anything so it wouldnt be a huge deal. do you think it would offend her that i know about her break up and want to take care of her child for her? i dont know her very well so idk how she'll react. i just want to be nice!