just think....maybe your daughter needs her dad too....UPDATE!
I know their hurting....their suffering a loss but for pets sake bm, your daughter obviously needs her dad too. You should know better...your other daughter just lost her dad to overdose! And you just lost your dad too!
No replies necessary...I just needed to vent.
Update 1: It's a long story behind my venting. It took her dad dying for her to let SD call her dad. It's been months since she let SD call him. Yes I know that bm isn't required to talk bf. But he had no idea this stuff was going on so when SD called hysterical he had no idea what was going on or why SD was acting the way she was....dh was trying to find out what was going on with his daughter.
Update 2: SD came over! She's gotten Soo big its crazy. Bm mom brought her over her yesterday. Of course bm came too but Gma did all the talking, bm looked uncomfortable. Thank goodness dh was nice (I was a little nervous for this first encounter from not speaking for over 6 months). Apparently SD has been crying for her dad since all this happened. I'm Soo glad dh saw SD....we all missed her. Let's just say the boys just kept hugging her. The baby didn't know her but she wad excited too. The funeral is on Thursday and dh is going....him and bm dad always got along. I gave my condolences, I may dislike Bm but I know this is a difficult time for them and wanted them to know I was thinking about them.
Bm is gonna let dd come over Friday...we have tickets to Disney on Ice. They agreed SD needed some distraction.