DH has been offered a job out of state and we are planning on moving within the next month. DH has sole legal and primary physical custody and has raised my SS by himself for 3 years while BM was completely out of the picture. BM gets my SS EOWE now. What would be an appropriate amount of visitation time after we move. Her parents suggest no more than 2 weeks at a time. We have the feeling that she won't be satisfied with two weeks at a time. BM has never paid CS, we do most of the driving, and send all the clothes that usually come back, but not always. I don't know if this is important when it comes to visitation.
Any suggestions on how much visitation time BM should get, how often, and who should pay for it?