MIL and FIL will be here Friday, staying for 4 days. I am already worrying about mentally handlng their visit. They are good people, however, I feel like I'm having an anxiety attack when they visit. MIL often brings up DH's ex (BM) and I don't want to talk about her nor do I want to hear about her, how their life used to be, things she did in the past (good and bad), whatever, I just don't like to hear it. MIL also wants to discuss the skids with ME constantly. Good or bad, she wants to talk and analyze every little thing they do or say. MIL also talks very, very loud. I think its because she is hard of hearing, but I feel like I'm being screamed at. In general, while MIL is a very good person, its hard for me to take her.