Last night I had my monthly ladies night so I was gone. Ss12 usually plays ps3 or hangs out w my sons but last night he came outside and hung w dad for a long time.
Among other things, he said that now that gabe is back around w his kids, mom acts all fake nice but when he's not there she ignores them. And that she doesn't take them anywhere unless gabe comes over and they are taking his daughters. And when they are gone (over here w dad) they take his daughters all kinds of places and not them. And his daughter just had a b day and mom got her all kinds of stuff, and on his b day she couldn't even take the time to get him a gift, she just gave him $40 and didn't even want to let him get what HE wanted. And didnt spend any time w him. He said he feel like mom cares more for gabe's girls than she does her own kids. And he feels like he hates her. And how come he can't come live w dad, even when we just stay home he feels happy here.
He also said after his mom rear ended that car she yelled at all of them and blames them for being loud, but that it happened because she was on the phone.
SO told me that he doesn't even know wtf to say to her, because she will just get defensive and deny it and then yell at ss12 later.