We have had SS every weekend for the last month and a half. BM has been in the process of moving and starting a new job. So she asked DH to take SS on her weekends.
Well this past weekend DH was in the hospital with kidney stones. He's already agreed to have SS this weekend before he was admitted. BM didn't even object to SS being with me without DH there, despite all the times she flipped out about me not being a babysitter and DH can't leave SS with me even for a second. But I did have to deal with her via text and even face to face and things went well.
DH told her last night that were moving 3 hours away. We really expected it to be a freak show after that news. She'd said previously, if she ever found out we left our city with him, we'd be in trouble. But!!! She didn't flip out. She asked what his plans were regarding visitation.
Yay for being mature!!!
I think this is the start of a less dramatic co-parenting relationship. :)