It has been a great day! Now we're relaxing at home, getting ready to go on a packing spree this weekend!
However, bm called today. SD shared the news with her that I am pregnant. We expected her to. That's her mom. But bm took it to a whole other level. Screaming at dh that she's sd's mom and I'm not.
I have never tried to be sd's mom. My husband is an every other weekend dad. I don't involve myself in preschool, activities, parenting, therapy etc. When my SD is here I try to give her and dh as much time together as possible. I buy her things, send gifts to her moms for Christmas, Easter etc. Bm and I are civil. Not much drama at all
When my son's Bio father got another woman pregnant, I remember how rough that was on me. I was angry! I was downright pissed off! I felt like he was trying to replace my son. It was a bad time for me. I was alone, angry and allowing a situation that I couldn't control bother me
I wonder if bm feels like I did. There really is no reason for her to yell at my husband that she is sd's mother. There's never been any reason for her to be insecure about it. I've never attempted to step on her toes
I think about how I felt, and I really hope bm doesn't feel like I did. It's truly an awful feeling
Okay, that's all - sorry - just needed to get my thoughts out