Need some advice. My step-daughter that I raised since she was 8 is getting married. I asked her what I should wear thinking that I would have a mothers dress and she replied just a cute sundress. My husband (her dad) will be in a tux and the rest of my children are all in the wedding. I think she is downgrading me out of the wedding. I had planned on paying for many things for the wedding but now wonder if I should be paying for anything at all. Guess my feelings are a little hurt. Her real mom lives hundreds of miles away and has never been much in her life but will be here for the wedding.