Hello ladies! In need of some advice! I have 3 step-daughters: 25, and twin 22 year olds who are graduating from college. I have a bio daughter (23), a son who is graduating from high school, a daughter who is graduating from 8th grade. My husband and I have a 23 month old daughter. Soooo, hands are full! We were planning on having one big grad party for all the kids. Just found out today that the twins want their own grad party as they feel their grad is "a big deal.". I think it's ridiculous to have multiple parties for several reasons: asking people to come to more than 1, cleaning/planning/expense, etc. Need opinions/advice please!!!