BM filed a petition to modify custody, CS, and visitation. Which, she has every right to do so since it's been over a year that the courts granted DH sole legal custody.
BUT, in that final ruling, the judge ordered her to complete a drug rehab program through the state's family drug court. She was also ordered to complete some parenting classes. She has yet to do either of those :\
So now, because DH doesn't agree with her petition, he has to file a response and we have to go to court.... again.
She has no stability whatsoever and what's sad is that she claims she's doing this for the kids. But really she isn't. It's the fact that DH has "sole legal custody." With her older son, she has joint custody with the father as the primary custodial parent. So it's all about the wording. Forget getting your shit together so you can productively be in your children's lives. Yeah... let's not focus on that.
"I DON'T WANNA LOOK INSIDE MYSELF. CAUSE THEN I'LL HAVE TO CHANGE SOMETHING ELSE. AND I DON'T WANNA LIVE LIKE SOMEONE ELSE. I'M HAPPY IN MY SKIN BEING MYSELF. LET'S DANCE."