My husband and I got married in 2008 but we were together since 1999, his daughter was 3 when we started dating. She would spend the weekends at our place and it was great. There was always a problem with the birth mom she didn't like me. We always did fun things when his daughter stayed with us and we always paid child support. Things started getting worse when she was about 11 or 12 she would tell me that they didn't have food in the house because we didn't give them any money. Her birth mom told her that we didn't pay child support so when she told me that I pulled out our court order and she showed her that we were paying the support. After that happened the birth mom took us back to court to get more money and won. She told the court that she couldn't work it's a mess. Then we got married and believe it or not things got sooooo bad. First she came to the wedding and wouldn't talk or eat anything. Then she spilled a soda down the front of my wedding dress boy was I mad. After the wedding she told us that she did want to see us or talk to us. My husband was shocked. Fastforwared to 2011 and I had our first child a daughter and then a year later we had a son. My husband has not spoken to or seen his daughter in two years (this is not because he doesn't want to but they don't return phone calls). We just found out this week that she is no longer enrolled in high school. I told him to call them and find out what is going on but he won't. He is so mad at them and he doesn't know what to do. We asked the court what is going on and the sent us to see a mediator but that hasn't happened yet because they keep moving the date and time. In that state we live in we have to pay child support until she is 18 and done with high school. She will turn 18 in December and will finish high school in June, but she currently isn't enrolled in high school so we will have to pay child support for another year. I'm at my wits end and I don't know what to do. Any advice would be helpful?