I realize Dh should get things done through court, we're working on that so please don't bash.
Anyway, Bm moved with very little notice, 4 hours away last fall. So she changed our visitation from 2 days a week to EOWeekend. But she said she would drive back to the town she lived in before for drop offs and pick ups, which is only 40 minutes away from us. Now she has switched our visitation to 5-6 days straight every month so that she doesn't have to drive as often. (We're fine with this because it gives us extra time) However, now she's asking us to drive halfway for pick ups and drop offs because she can't afford it.
What should my Dh say to get her to drive to where she originally agreed? Because we really can't afford all that driving and SHE'S the one who decided to quit her job, pick up and move for no reason.