So DH and I got full custody !!! Physical and legal!!!! Bm said she can only pickup SD once a month because she couldn't afford it. Dont know what DH was thinking but he told the court he could drop SD off, which is 90 mins away every visit. DH works, so basically he volunteered me to do it, I said hell no, but its in the court order that he is suppose to drop off for 7. So now he is going to do a modification. I offered to bring SD to the train station, which is 25 mins from our home. Bm refused, said she would still have to drive to the train station. I told her once in a while I could bring SD to her if things were that tight, she declined as well and said if DH can't do it then the next adult in the house needs to go it. I have thrown in the towel, I am not doing anything. Her child, she makes the provisions to see her, that is it. I should have never volunteered to begin with. Can the court force DH to go it, since he initially agreed? He had to Worl so in reality, he can't do it. What is your tale on it ladies? A three hour trip every Other Friday is two much, plus I have my two children.
on Apr. 5, 2013 at 11:40 PM