Bm's parents showed up 6 yrs later unannounced *update*
Luckly my dh has kept pics of thier other side of the family so I knew who they were. The kids and I were home alone. Dh works sat. They knew this because bm told them I'm sure.
I was so freaked out. We have court on monday with bm. And all of a sudden they show up.. asking me to "kidnapp" them for the day to spoil the kids. I almost died when they said that. I called dh he's freakin I'm freakin but I held my cool. I lied like I've never lied (I haven't lied a true lie in years I hate lying. But I did today infront of the kids and all. My gut was screaming do not let them leave this house!
So I didn't. I have the support from ALL of dh family. Bm cost my dh 35k in court and travel alone to get these kids back
They were abused so bad they still have scars from the now Sf. I'm mostly venting but honestly.. do you guys think its worth going to court and getting added to the custody papers g-parents must atleast give a warning of coming?
I'm terrified! Sposely they are leaving monday
.. on our court day. They live in new mexico. In a way I feel bad but we did offer meeting them sunday suppervised.they are saying they will be soo busy with visiting other people.
I also caught them in a lie. Gma said she hasn't spoke bm forever. Yet she knew we had court? Bm only got notice 2 weeks ago and I'm sure she's madder than mad. We are changing visitation.. currently we spose to pay half her travel and half hotel. Last yr she made sure to cost us a bundle because nothing is in the papers for a limit of cost and she hates us. So she flew .. she bought the ticket 2 days before and stayed at the hilton.. but now she's married. We are changing it to half of a bus ticket and nothing else. She doesnt pay cs or buy anything for the kids ever.
Well so far so good. Dh had a extended family picnic on sunday. Bm gparents did not get to take the kuds anywhere.
Got out of court today. We have trail july 1st. She's fighting it even tho she's not going to win. The judge was not happy. She didn't file her responce she claimed ignorance. Which she knew darn well she had to. She tried to get dh throw in jail for contempt for not filing the response last court battle. she filled it lol.. which again made the judge SO mad. We have the same judge this time. The judge said she will have to pay her travel to court and even possiably visitaion because the court date is during her time. Bm panics and says but I want to do it today! Judge says we would have but you didn't respond ypur fault. Bm boo hoos she doesn't know how to do it all. Well she had no problem sueing us for 55 dollars last yr lol.
Dh is going for no visits since all she is doing is making the kids upset. She calls the most every 2 months for 5 mins top. She doesn't even call on holidays or thier birthdays. So all is well so far. Whew