Shampoo and nothing of my own - vent and pity party
Hi Ladies, This morning I went to wash my hair in "good" shampoo that my mom bought me (I dont get the good stuff anymore since I'm a stepmom). Well I cant find it and I KNOW I left it in my bathroom (my bathroom is 1/2 bath). I look in the other bathroom (that we all use with a shower etc) and its not there I ask my husband and of course he is clueless. WWWEEELLLLLLL, something tells me to look in the trash can in the big bathroom......... and there it is...... the top had been screwed completely off and just dumped with shampoo everywhere in the can. I was so upset.
I guess I was upset because NOTHING is "just mine" anymore. No I dont have kids of my own just my two step sons (who love to take bubble baths) and husband. I have taken pains to keep the shampoo and conditioner that my mom gave me away from the big bathroom but even that didnt help.
Am I being WAY over sensitive? Its not the shampoo its the fact that it was mine and one of "them" put their grubby hands all over it!!!!
I dont have a place to "lock" to keep my stuff in... so I cant do that. My husband doesnt understand what the big deal is. What do I do? I feel like I'm losing all my privacy!!!
I have a good idea of which kid it was... I want so badly to go crash his room and take all the crap his mom gives him and throw it away..... BUT I"M NOT I'm an adult...
He is home from his moms now and I have barely said a word to him... I cant or I'll get upset and make an even bigger deal out of it. It was JUST SHAMPOO.. but my mom got it for ME and no one else (yes I'm selfish about this particular shampoo.. sue me ha)..
Just needed to vent... what would you do?