S/o:At what point does time involved start to count?
Some of the responses included basically "a year isn't long enough to be included." (Sorry for the misquote, just a rough translation!!)
So I was wondering... At what point- IF EVER- is someone in a child's life long enough to earn that privilege? Is there a magic age the child needs to be when sm comes around? Or is it a length of involvement thing?? Does the CO and how often the child is around the sm matter?
Not trying to start a huge debate, just wondering what others thought...