Im on bed rest so now i am home 24/7. I noticed this behavior before but i worked 2nd shift and never really saw ss13 so even though i noticed it i solely relied on dh to relay the message. Now that im home dh has decided that me and ss need to talk more. simple things like pick you shoes up if your done rinse your plate nothing big big things are dh no question about it.
This boy has some how got it in his mind that if im not "angry" he doens't have to listen. i.e don't eat this its for the baby. we go to the grocery store he has cooked it and eaten it i say whyd you eat that i told you not to. "oh i thought you were joking". I NEVER JOKE. im not that person that jokes and hopes someone can tell the difference im dead serious about my answers. can i have this "yes" or "no".
Im so irritated there is a lot more that has been going on with the same basic principle. towels. put them in the laundry basket what does he do stashes them in his room he doens't want us going through his room when i say us i mean dh then he shouldn't hoard all the damn towels am i right or am i right.
Im sure this is typical teenage behavior but OMG is there a trick to getting this boy to listen. dh "forgets" untill im angry with both of them. have tried that route.
Sorry this is more of a rant than anything else thanks for your time
on Apr. 24, 2013 at 8:45 PM