Do you feel that you're biased when you read about step kids who are very young?
I have a bit of a weird bias I think.
When I read posts by SMs who have 1-2YO step kids, I honestly think to myself "WTF kind of douche is the Dad?" I realize this is not the right way to think and that there are all sorts of reasons people divorce or split up. But I guess somewhere in my head, I think that if people actually planned to have kids, being divorced and remarried before the kid is even 1 or 2 years old means you didn't try too hard. Or..that you failed to use proper BC.
Like I said, I know that's not an appropriate assumption to make in all cases. But on another board, it certainly does seem to fit. BF has bunches of little kids with several different ladies and here's SM saying she's SM to multiple kids <3YO. That's just...ugh.