She is not BM nor a SM she is just the aunt, I wish she would just stop!
We took a trip to Michigan for my grandparents 70th Wedding Anniversary. The Skids couldn't go since BM wouldn't let the SD miss school and my SS is 3 and she didn't want him to go. Well DH's sister calls and asks why she wasn't informed that we were leaving, I guess she has been getting the kids EOWE when DH doesn't have them so BM can sleep and go on dates (this info came from the Aunt). The aunt doesn't like me and certainly is of no concern to my family since they don't know her. She has seriously butt her way into an already frustrating situation. I am repeating and expanding my motto "Not my kids, only my family by marriage not my problems" I am so frustrated that DH has one more stressor in his life trying to tell him how to raise his kids, so glad that I let that responsibility roll of my back like water on a ducks back!