SS will be 12 soon and will start a new school in September, DH plans to give SS a debit card to use for lunch, snacks and other miscellaneous items. This won't affect the CS arrangement, is this something DH needs to discuss with BM since he is only the NCP? Would the CP be required to discuss the arrangement with the NCP?
Is there any valid reason why a CP would object to this?
I think he should let her know for information purposes only and I can't think of a reason she would object to it.