I'm reading the book "No Ones the Bitch" and it says that if I want to take the leap to a smoother road between Bm and me, I should make a very kind, compassionate, genuine gesture. Example from the book is sending a card.
BM is preggers and due in June. DH and I haven't really congratulated her and while we are all civil towards each other, there is still A LOT of tension. So much that my skids don't want to talk to DH over the phone. Ever. She puts it on speaker and sits by them and listens...not sure if that is common? And we live on opposite sides of the country due to him being in the military. We are only able to see them during the summers and the odd years for Christmas. SO I want to send her a Mothers Day card wishing her a Happy Mothers Day and also congratulating her on her new little one.
I know there are BMs in this group soooo my question is, would you appreciate a Mothers Day card?? Or would you just think its creepy or piss you off? Would you even think any thing of it at all?
Again....I got the idea from the book..
Any input would be appreciated!