This,weekend SD will be staying at BMs friends (as in BMs stbxh other BM) while she is outta town for the,weekend with the new boyfriend. She offered to let us know we can have her Sunday if we liked...no to the point BM goes on a,rant saying SD has,been "clingy", freaks out when she leaves (which since getting her divorce is more frequent, which is ok all moms deserve a break) and has been quote "up her,ass"... She then goes to tell DH she needs more "Daddy" time and thinks she's developing "abandonment issues" because DH "left" and STBXH "left"... I have an issue w this THEORY.... it takes two parents to be held accountable if a child feels abandoned and I feel like she's placing the blame but not taking any of it... SD,has already mommys boyfriend is always over and she doesn't spend time with her ..hm?
I am leaving this to DH and not saying a,word.
But do you not agree it's not ONE parent that effects a Childs emotional well being?
Also I don't get how it's,just DH,and SFs fault, they didn't just "leave" she wanted to run them off w less than admirable deeds...
on Apr. 27, 2013 at 3:38 PM