BM and the hurtful things that come out of her mouth
My SD told that while she was visiting BM this weekend that she told my SD that they were going to take her to the place where you take kids you don't want and just leave her there. She also told her that we would be happy about it and said we would say yay we didn't want her here.
There are so many hurtful things that she says to my SD. It's almost like it's the only way she can talk to her. I don't know how many times she's come home and said BM or SF said this and it hurt her feelings. She cries about it sometimes too. BM knows she's sensitive and doesn't seem to either notice or care that she is hurting her.
We don't care what she says about us but my SD does. She considers me to be her mommy. I do everything I can for her and then some.
It just breaks our hearts seeing her so hurt all the time.
My SD lives with us full time. She has lived with my DH for 6 years. I've been here for about 4 of those years.
EDIT: My SD has been seeing a therapist for close to 2 years now. She has ahard time opening up so sometimes the horrible things BM and her family say or do to SD don't come out for months which does not help her. Even though we've had many talks with her about getting everything out so she can get help with it all she has not gotten to that point yet.
Thank you al for the support. I know there is no real advice you can give me that will help. We are already doing all we can to get her through this but the support helps.