Haven't had the internet, thus haven't been able to post this until now:
We won!!!! We officially got custody of SD!!!! The ruling came out about 2 months ago, BM refused to give her to us until we went back to court about it a month ago, and SD has now been with us for a month. She's doing awesome in school, has made a bunch of friends (including the little girl she goes to school with who lives next door), and is just doing so fabulously!!! Excited to be able to give her some stability FINALLY!!!!!!!!!!!!