SD16 has fallen out with her BFF again, lol. I'm not laughing really, but as you know, teenage-girl-crap is never-ending! Well, the sky is about to fall because her BFF, along with 3 other girls called her last night & railroaded her with their individual & collective "gripes."
My SD is very methodical, analytical and careful to choose her next moves, regardless if its at home, or with her friends. Anyway, she called me & told me the WHOLE, 2HOUR run-down....right as I was watching the Knockout Rounds on The Voice, lmao!!!
Then she goes, "I want us and our mothers to sit down at a restaurant or park somewhere and talk. That way, our moms are there to hear all parts of the story." I was like "that's cool, but I doubt if it gets that far. Just stand your ground, be truthful and apologize babydoll." You know the usual advice.
Then she goes back to, "it'll be me, you, X friend, X friend's mom...." Wait! I said "you're talking about ME going with you?!" She said "yeah, silly. I don't want my mom going - yuuuuuck! She doesn't know what's going on!" All of a sudden, Adam Levine no longer had my attention and I was like "really? No seriously, those other moms KNOW that I'm not BM and I'm not trying to step on your mom's toes. Have you told her all of this?" Of course the answer was "no"...and her mom was in the very next room.
Long story short, afterwards, I told DH and he said it probably won't get that far, but because SD asked me to go indicates what I represent to her and what her own mom represents. I disagree partially, and I would never go to a roundtable like this without BM knowing about it, saying she could NOT go etc. But then again, how will it make SD feel if I opt out after she came to me? It would devastate me if the tables were turned and my child asked his/her SM to go meet with other "moms."
Oh hell! I sure hope those girls kiss & make up soon.