Hello, I am new to this site. My DH & I have been together for 7 years and married for 2 years. We have a 3 year old son. He has an almost 9 year old with an ex girlfriend. To say things are strained at the house is an understatement every other weekend. I want to take our son to Disney for a day or a weekend. We live in FL so it's not that big of a deal to go for a day. The problem is my DH tells me we cannot go without getting my stepson a ticket too. I don't get why we cannot go on a weekend we don't have my stepson. He is not big on riding rides and is very disrespectful to me all the time. My DH says he will ride the rides at Disney. I don't think so. We took him to Wet N Wild for his 8th birthday for a weekend. He refused to go on any of the other water slides and only played in the kiddie section. While our 2 year old wanted to go down all the water slides that he could. So my DH forced him to go down one regular slide that our 2 year old loved. Well stepson cried the entire time in line and then cried even harder as we approached the slide ride. It was a group raft ride. Am I wrong to just want to do a family vacation just the 3 of us? My DH said we have to take him on any and all trips to be fair. BM doesn't take him on vacation. She takes the vacations without him, but takes her latest loser stud. She also doesn't work and lives off the system and collects child support. Any and all help is greatly apprecatiated. This is causing problems with my husband and me. Thanks!
on May. 3, 2013 at 10:47 PM