She has one son that is older than me. I've met him three times in the last 10 years that I've known her.
He just found out that he has an 11 year old child. Paternity has been done and he is starting his supervised visits to get to know the child.
My SM emailed my siblings and I that she is excited for us to meet our new niece. I have no feelings towards the situation. I think it sucks that a woman that has been aching for her very own grandchild has missed out on years and years of getting to be a grandma. But I don't feel any sort of connection to the child and I don't really feel like I'm going to be Aunt so and so over night. I barely have a relationship with my bio dad as it is. So I don't see myself running over to play aunt ... I don't even know this child's father.
What's your experience with a situation like this and how would it make you feel?