OSS mom has been telling him that she didnt have custody of him because his dad threatened her. He told me this during an intense conversation between he and I and started crying etc. I encouraged him to talk to his dad and he did. He was shown proof of her lies through the divorce decree and he was shown that she could get him more than she does. OSS is 11.
This weekend was her weekend and the first weekend he saw her since our talk and his and his dad's talk. I asked how it went and he said that BM told him that his dad my dh said something to the effect of she will be in a body bag before she gets her kids.
I want to wring both their necks (DH and BM) and tell them to JUST STOP IT. But I would be out of line. Wouldnt I? BM has lied to OSS several times and he has seen it himself. This has just got to stop.
I personally want everyone to go to counseling but that won't happen even if it would help OSS.