Anyone who doesn't support their child is a deadbeat. Man or women...it doesn't matter.
The Department of Child Support sure has a crappy view of NC fathers. DCS was AWFUL to DH for the first 6 months that CS was ordered. Every time he called to speak to his caseworker she was SO nasty to him. Finally he told her, "Look, I'm not trying to get out of paying CS, I just want to know what the heck is going on." She was finally decent to him. He didn't have any issues after that.He's now CP and BM is ordered to pay CS, she works full time and has no paid a dime in CS yet. I'm willing to bet that DH will never see a dime of it until it becomes time for her to file her taxes. Not only does she not pay CS, but she goes over a month (nearly 2 full months) between visits with SD because she's too busy planning parties at her apartment.
Quoting bertaboo1:Forgive me for a random statement . ..too much red wine waiting on dh to come home...
If a man can't or won't provide financially. ..he is labeled a deadbeat scum...but if a bm can't or won't pay cs...oh well poor bm...double standards much?
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