I am just so fed up with all the bs. It makes me want to just scream. I am so sick of every little thing that SS says his mom has to call/txt and make my husband feel bad. If I say something then I become the bad guy & we fight about it. Any advice? Last time he said I was mean because it was nice outside & I told him AND both of my bio sons to go outside and play. I didnt let them sit in front of TV so I am mean and he doesnt want to come home when he has too. I get the fact that if a kid has the choice of a house with rules to follow and one where they can sit in front of TV 24/7 and go to bed when they please and eat nothing but junk food they are gonna stay at the "fun" house. But when I say this my husband thinks I am just blowing SS off. The kids 9 & to smart he can manipulate both of them & they fall for it everytime. Maybe I just understand that a bit better bc I have a 14 & 11 year old andhave dealt with it before but I am sick of being made out as this horrible person for making a child eat real food, take showers, do his homework, and go to bed at bed time!!!!!!!!!!!! Any advice?? I am just so confused am I a bad person or am I just a normal parent that wants best for child!!