So I remember hearing that SM day is next weekend and mentioned that I believe stepmom day is next week when she will be with SM and dad. She could make or buy a card and give it to her then.
She said 'never mind it would make her mad if it wasn't ON Mother's Day'. She doesn't like it when I remind her she is a stepmom.
So the point of my post. Does it bother you if a kid gives you a card on stepmom day? Or does it need to be Mother's Day for you to appreciate it? And would it make you happy to get a card? Or would you feel annoyed (for lack of a better word) that mom helped or bought a card for you?
My idea was a nice picture in a card that tells her thank you for being in my life or whatever my daughter decided to put in there. Dd seems to believe it will cause more problems and/or it won't be received well.