First off let me just say that I in no way shape or form consider myself to be my SD " mother" however I do know for a fact that I take on more motherly roles than BM does. It has become routine for BM to text and ask my DH or I to come and pick my SD up early or take extra days because she wants to go out with friends. I understand friend time is needed sometimes but when BM only has 3 days a week of visitation anyways she should be able to get her friend time taken care of in the 4 days in which she doesn't have her child. Just my opinion and I'm sure I'll have some haters. What has also become routine is for my DH to pick my SD up on these days between 6 or 7 at night and SD not eaten anything at all because "mommy didn't feel like making me anything to eat today" . me being angry over SD not being fed properly is not a matter of opinion its just plain wrong. Not bathing also is a common ocurance but hey who is keeping track.
We have a meeting with out attorney next week but at this point I'm boiling mad and need to vent.
And also was wandering if anyone else had dealt with issues like this and what ended up being the results. It seems the general consensus at this point is that there is really no way to prove any of it and that we are SOL.
Someone save me!
on May. 11, 2013 at 3:03 PM