My in laws were over yesterday for a bbq. My FIL asked me what sd was doing this summer. I said she will be at her moms 2wks on and 2wks off. I Honestly think it's the best plan ever. My FIL asked how bm felt about it. I told him she first said it's ok because it's for school but she wants her everyday that she doesn't have school. Then when she found out when sd started school again she wanted to send sd home a week early. I told him I love that kid and I'd do anything for her but you can't go around treating my dh and I like we are some kind of boarding school. Then before summer starts demand that she comes back a week early. He totally understood what I was saying. I told him about sds clothes and how I was sick of sending her down there with bags full of clothes getting her back at 9 and finding out not one thing is clean. I told him how bm said send down clothes sd can keep there and that dh and I are currently arguing of that idea because I don't think it's fair for us to buy clothes that bm keeps. My FIL told me he understands where I'm coming from that I just want everything to be fair. He said sadly with that lady things won't ever be fair she will always find wats to use that child to tug on dh and u. He said just understand that we know what you do and we will always be here to help you.
on May. 19, 2013 at 8:35 AM