What do you do when your kids and his kids don't get along.....eventually somewhere down the road SOMEONE may say this to another child....tears are gonna fall...feelings get hurt...then what?!
For as long as BM has been with SF, whenever the parents aren't home, sd15 is put in charge of the kids. The younger kids have complained they don't like her because she bosses them around like slaves, or screams at them the entire time or locks them in their rooms.
So when DH took SS home, I got to talk to SD12.
Basically BM's ss clocked my sd in the head, sd15 didn't do anything to her brother for hitting my sd, so my sd called her mother.
SD15 went off on my sd for ratting her out, and bm went off on BOTH girls for being bitchy.
been telling that woman for years-get a grip on the kids before it gets out of control-she didnt wanna listen
dh told her man times-we'd take her. Nope bm wont let her come live with us...instead bm just allows sd15 to run the house like SHE"S The mother and does whatever and the kids are miserable.
this is what happens when you cater to your skids over your bio kids-its sad my ss hates his mother, now her oldest child hates her.
as if I dont have enough to deal with already!
-for those who dont know my situation-bm has always pushed her kids off onto anyone else every chance she got
-she will actually make her bio kids leave the house if her stepkids dont want her birth kids there
-the house they all live in-bm and sf rent TOGETHER
-neither SF's kids are in therapy due to the abuse/neglect to their drug addict mother
-sd12 is in therapy for attempted suicide and self mutilation due to bm's treatment of her
-dh is not SD12's bio father however has been in her life since she was 1-2 yrs old and is the only stable father she's ever known.
-sd15 is very abusive to my sd12 because of jealousy issues
-neither ss6 or sd12 care for their mother and both prefer to live with us however bm refuses to allow them to because then ppl would realize she's not the perfect mother like she pretends to be