BM is taking SD for the weekend tomorrow. I'll be doing the drop off as DH will be at work.
BM hasn't seen SD in 7 weeks and she's never been to any of SD's therapy appointments (physical and occupational). SD has activities that she's supposed to do daily for both therapies. We've made copies of every print out we have, and DH is typing up notes explaining the exercises/activities and other important details. All of this has been emailed to BM over the last 7 weeks, but she has a tendency to not print anything out or do any follow through with therapy stuff.
I mean, as much as it's necessary to give BM all of this information, I kinda feel like it's similar to saying, "Well, since you obviously don't have a clue on how to take care of your kid, here's a printed list of instructions to get you through the weekend."
Sending copies of the exercises/activities in SD's bag is really the only way to ensure that SD will remember to get it all done. It's really not like there's a lot to do, all of it should take less than an hour total and SD is completely capable of doing it on her own (she does here with minimal reminders).