Three times that chick with the 26yo SS deleted her post
Three times I replied with the same answer, and three times she deleted her post. Did she not get the answer she wanted? Will she try again?
To the OP - the man doesn't want to have a relationship with you. He doesn't like you. He wants a relationship with his father, not you. Let his father speak to him. It's dumb to say if he doesn't want both of you, then he can go to hell. He's your husband's son. Get over yourself and stop making it about you.
There. You can't delete that.