I have tried to maintain the though process that bm is semi sane and would never do anything to hurt sd.. I guess I was wrong.
Friday bm texts and says sd is sick and shed rather just keep her home. The nurovirus is going around like crazy so dh agreed. However my papa is in town and my family had a get together yesterday..
Grandpa his 5 kids tgeir spouses their 13 kids and their spouses and the 22 great grandkids all in one place.. so dh texts bm and asks if sd is feeling better and bm says to pick her up..
While there sd asks if she can spend the weekend with us. Its dhs weekend and holiday so dh calls bm its a fight but she gives in... while hes on the phone about 100 feet from sd.. sd tells my sister in law that her mom is going to say no. She says no everytime sd wants to stay at daddies house. All this time we seriously thought sd didnt want to come over..
Then when we walk through the door at home at 845 last night sd asks to call her mom and say goodnight. Dh yawned on the phone and bm yelled at him that he shouldnt be on the phone if hes receiving sexual favors. .. um honey men are not supposed to yawn when you do those things lol
Then she starts telling at dh because sd hadnt had a bath yet.. we JUST walksd through the door.. so dh told her to pick her fight with someone else and hung up on her. Sd walked in the room at that point and started apologizing for telling ger mom she didnt have a bath yet.. dh talked to her and told her that she doesnt have to apologize for her moms behavior.
Then sd says that her kommy said that we didnt pick her up yesterday because we went out to dinner with ds and didnt want her to go.
1 we didnt go out to dinner
2 bm told us sd was sick.. sd said she wasnt sick
Why would you tell your child lies that hurts their relationship with their dad..
Ugh.. okay vent over