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How do I speak to Dad??

Posted by on May. 31, 2013 at 9:58 PM
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My boyfriends daughter is getting out of hand.  Grades, mouth cerfew...EVERYTHING!!! And dad says nothing.  Every night there are kids in my home till all hours of the night.  What do I say and how do I approach that?? Don't even want to come home anymore!!!

 

 

by on May. 31, 2013 at 9:58 PM
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destiny83
by on May. 31, 2013 at 10:00 PM

How long have you been together, how old is SD, and where is BM?

SarahlovesLiz
by on May. 31, 2013 at 10:03 PM

Your house.  Kick them out! 

help1027
by Member on May. 31, 2013 at 10:23 PM

Our home...

help1027
by Member on May. 31, 2013 at 10:24 PM

Together on and off for almost 4 years. SD is 14 and BM is MIA for now.

sarawags
by on Jun. 1, 2013 at 12:10 AM

Ugh - well considering that you said "boyfriend" - I'd take it as a red flag and be done - time alone does not fix these thing - couple love doesn't either - 

Tinkerbellmama
by Platinum Member on Jun. 1, 2013 at 12:55 AM
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There's nothing you can do. Not your kid. Dad doesn't have a problem with it. That's not a SD problem, that's a boyfriend problem. I'd seriously consider if that's the kind of guy you want to be with forever, and potentially bring more children into the world with. Chances are his parenting isn't going to change much.

As for the kids in your house, kick them out. 

faerie75
by Ruby Member on Jun. 1, 2013 at 12:59 AM
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"On and off" was the red flag for me

Quoting sarawags:

Ugh - well considering that you said "boyfriend" - I'd take it as a red flag and be done - time alone does not fix these thing - couple love doesn't either - 

whatIknownow
by on Jun. 1, 2013 at 8:14 AM

Why did you move in with your boyfriend if you don't like having his kids around?

I would move out. This relationship is not for you.

help1027
by Member on Jun. 1, 2013 at 9:55 AM

I love kids and love his daughter, but she is getting out of control.

luckystars2012
by Platinum Member on Jun. 1, 2013 at 10:14 AM
This


Quoting Tinkerbellmama:

There's nothing you can do. Not your kid. Dad doesn't have a problem with it. That's not a SD problem, that's a boyfriend problem. I'd seriously consider if that's the kind of guy you want to be with forever, and potentially bring more children into the world with. Chances are his parenting isn't going to change much.

As for the kids in your house, kick them out. 


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