Are they Dead Beat Dads or Dads just sick of BM drama?
Ok my question is do you think that all the dead beat dads out there are really dead beats or they got sick of all the baby mama drama and stop seeing their kids.
I mean don't get me wrong I know plenty of friends where their kids BD haven't seen then since they were a few weeks old and now the kids like 12. Heck some of my friends BD they haven't seen in 20-30 yrs. So I understand that some dads are just dead beats.
But then my question is I read all these horror stories with all these BM and there are some BM on here that are like my BD is a POS and bla bla bla. And I wonder if the BD just got sick and tired of dealing with BM and all her shit. And BD just said enough was enough and couldn't take all the BM drama. I mean cuz some BM are bitter and mean. And some BM keep the kids from BD so that BD can't see them unless he jumps through all these hoops and sometimes there is no hoops BM is just being a bitch and says nope you can't see my kids. So then the kids think BD is a dead beat when he really isn't that it is BM being a bitch. I am not tiring to stir the pot or anything I was just thinking about this and wondered about all this. What are your thought or opinions on this.