Ok step mom, I've been married to baby dad for 7 years now. We won custody of his two 6 and 4 but I've been in their lives since they were 3 and 1. The mother couldn't pass a drug test, has been arrested for stripping twice, beat the crap out of her grand ms in front of the oldest, married twice now, divorce I'm the near future cause I found were she was looking at fook up website on my sons phone. Had me thinking he did it. Jt is ten and his not a problem and I understand he's going through alot but he was young when we got him. But if he could have his choice ( children's choice of who yo live with are revote when a parent is found unfit ) he would live with her and never look back. My husband works two on and two weeks off so it's just me for two weeks to handle the crazy. My step son thinks his mother hangs the world but we give him everything. He told me today I never believe him, never take up for him, just all around ignore him. He is active in school football, baseball, basket ball, I take him everywhere he needs to go even pay for his stuff. I sat down with him and we were talking serious I'm crying I just want him to open up to me but all I get is idk. It's killing me. I love him and its still not good enough she never gives or does anything for him. My step daughter opposite she would be fine seeing her mom once a month. I have two children girl and boy. I need to know how to get him to open up. And this is just the surface of the book on this.
on Jun. 19, 2013 at 11:52 PM