I have been a step mom for 4 yrs and I still feel like I want to scream "get over it already" ?? I have two step daughters now 18 and 22 at times they seem to be adjusting and then with a blink of an eye something will set them off and what usually results is them ignoring their dad. For fathers day for example their dad waited around for them to be available so he could see them. Finally saw them at 6pm after they had spent the day at their BM's parents house seeing grandpa. He bought them dinner and not so much as a card for dad. Makes my blood boil..