My husband and I have been married eight years. I can't have children. My husband has two kids from previous marriage. Son 12 and daughter 14. They live full time with their mom. We get them every other weekend. I am a step child myself and due to how I was treated by my SM, I have tried very hard to not treat these children that way.
In the eight years of our marriage, we have taken three vacations without the kids. Two out of the country (mom wouldn't let them go and one trip to disney for our first anniversary). On all other vacations, they have been family vacations. Their mom doesn't take them on vacations so if they the kids get to go anywhere it is up to us to take them.
For our 10th anniversary my husband wants the two of us to go back to disney. I have mixed emotions. I want us to go without the kids, but then other part of me feels guilty for not including them. Any suggestions?