I put this out there every few months. I'm looking for other SMs like me. My SD's BM died 4 years ago. BM and BF were already divorced, BF had full custody, and I was already living with my SDs and their BF when it happened.
I have many of the same issues as most of the SMs on this forum with BMs still in the picture. However, I have a TON of other issues to contend with because of the absence of the girls' BM.
Anyone else out there like me? Anyone?