And what do you do about them? I've recently noticed that my stepdaughter tells lies quite a bit. I told her dad about it. Let me give you an example. We went to a flea market because we wanted to get out of the house. The kids were all picking out one toy. The man running that particular booth came over and asked me to please have my daughter stop opening the merchandise. She was just sitting there opening up the light up pacifiers like it was nobody's business. Then came the lies. She told her dad that she didn't do it period, it was my daughter. The same guy who told me in the first place about what she was doing, when I got up to the counter, told me that he wasn't trying to be rude but that she was outright lying. When asked again she says she just wanted to see which ones worked. She's 10, she's old enough to know better. But this is what comes out of my husbands mouth "you know being black the white people in there are going to watch every move you make". Okay, not saying this doesn't happen but what about not playing the race card and having her own up to what she just did wrong. Am I horrible for this? This is just one example of a long string of things that have happened but I'll stop here before I bore all of you to tears.