What was your reaction when you found out..... UPDATE*
....your ex was having another baby? If anyone has been in a situation where your ex was having another child, what was your reaction? Were you angry? annoyed? sad? didn't give a shit? lol I'm just curious as to how it was for you?? Also, if there is anyone who was on the other side (you are the one having or had the new baby) and wants to share their story as well about the BM or BD's reaction in your situation. I know everyone is different and every situation is different, I'd just like to hear some stories on how this played out for you and your family.
*UPDATE: Ok, so this weekend we decided to make our news public knowledge for everything. FB official, BM official. I convinced SO that it would be best if he told her directly rather than letting her find out through the kids or another 3rd party, I had been reading alot about Co-parenting for Divorced people and that was something that was said in more than one article I read. So he texted her:
SO: I just wanted to let you know that Chelse and I are having a baby. We told the kids. But I thought I would let you know too.
BM: Oh wow awesome
BM: How far along is she?
SO: 8 weeks.
BM: Oh cool. I think it's gonna be a girl. How are the kids with it? and this is another reason why we all need to continue to get along.
So answered about the kids etc. Then she texted me congratulating me and we talked about a few other things etc. I feel better that she didn't blow up about it. Although, I'm not so sure she in 100% genuine in being so "good" about it or not... but I'll take it for now. I feel alot better that its out in the open and that she didn't freak. I know I shouldn't have cared either way, but I just didnt want it to negatively effect the kids or my SO.