I don't know why, but this pisses me off so f***king bad!!!

[mouthyhousewife]

My friend... Her kids are 11 and 13 and every time this fucking broad gets a new boyfriend or husband she convinces her kids he's their new dad. One has a dad who is a part of his life!! 

[DDDaysh]

So...  why are you friends with this person?  

And why do you let her situation impact you to the point that it pisses you off "so f***king bad!!!".  I would really work on learning how to control your emotional space so that other people's problems don't have such a large impact on your life.  

[Tracylynn100]

I hope she makes enough to pay for their therapy when they are older.  Are you close enough to bring it up to her?

[mouthyhousewife]

LOL!!

It's not like its to the point that I'm visibly upset over this. I'm just ranting about it because it was brought to my attention again a few moments ago. 

I'm really not sure why I'm friends with her. I guess I'm really not anymore. 

Quoting DDDaysh:

So...  why are you friends with this person?  

And why do you let her situation impact you to the point that it pisses you off "so f***king bad!!!".  I would really work on learning how to control your emotional space so that other people's problems don't have such a large impact on your life.  

[mouthyhousewife]

HA! Make money.. lol 

No, we aren't close anymore. I've slowly distanced myself from her over the years.. 

Quoting Tracylynn100:

I hope she makes enough to pay for their therapy when they are older.  Are you close enough to bring it up to her?

[Nlvonblah]

That's really fucked up!! Can't they be an uncle or something?  HaHa!!! N

[mouthyhousewife]

Lol... They have had lots of "uncles" too. lol

I just don't get it. I only dated one guy after me and my kids' dad split. It was 2 years after the break up and I ened up marrying him. We were married a year before the kids called him dad. 

Quoting Nlvonblah:

That's really fucked up!! Can't they be an uncle or something?  HaHa!!! N

[faerie75]

BM does this to her son. Poor kid is 15. She also forces "play dates" w her friends kids on him and generally treats him like a damn baby. Teenagers tend to choose their own friends.

[Preciousj99]

Poor kids

[MrsMiles85]

I really try not to be judgmental but that shit really irks me.  I lost a friendship over that once.  Just couldn't stand to see it anymore.  Every loser that walks in and out is NOT their dad.

[destiny83]

Last time BM (who has terminated rights btw) saw SD was sometime in 2011. It was brief as she "had to go out to meet the guy who would be SD's new Daddy. LOL. Did I meantion my DH has full custody and her rights are terminated? Yeah, she a classy one.