I know some BM's here take issue with the B in BM.
Do SM's take issue with having their position in sk's life reduced to "babysitter" status regularly?
Personally, I really dislike it and find it condecending. I babysit children regularly and it's not even close to a comparisson of my relationship with my SD. After reading the descriptions of how people define their role as a stepmom, it doesn't seem like it's an accurate description of a lot of SM's. I'm curious about other's thoughts on this.