Because this is news to me! BM recently told my brother in law that when she does drop off and pick up with my DH, they go off and have sex! I KNOW it isn't true, because DH doesn't do drop offs and pick ups alone. I go with him almost every time. I'm sure it is just something to try to get between us. She told brother in law that they did it several times when we first got married.
DH and I have been married over 4 years now, and they always meet in a public place. If he goes alone, I'm on speaker phone or called right before and right after to make sure everything went ok. She's been known to say ugly things or just take off with the baby, so it was just a precaution.
I think it's ridiculous to try to start something between us! They were never married and split up before SD was even born due to her decision and her cheating. I can't believe after all this time she is still so hung up on DH that she would spread rumors like these. It's just sad... She is even dating and has another daughter by a man with my DH's name and recently bought a car exactly like ours and bragged about it being 4 years newer.
I just felt like I had to get it out before I lost my mind. I don't want to say anything to her and start more drama, but damn it, when will this bull crap stop!? It's just not right. DH is still sick at the thought, and he is so panicked thinking I'm going to believe the rumor. I know better. DH is the best husband I could ever ask for, so loving, appreciative, hard-working, and always there for me. I know he didn't do this. It just sucks that she keeps interjecting herself into our relationship. We're trying to just forget it and move on, because it's taking up too much thinking space, but it still shocks me, I guess, that it keeps happening.